My depression is not pretty. It is not cute, catchy, or attractive. It does not cause heads to turn, hands to clap, or lips to smile. Continue reading
My Depression is Not Pretty
Tag Archives: Life Lessons
I Am Not Your Buffet
I am not food that is sitting out in a warmer, waiting to fit into your schedule, on your clock, in your calendar, and at your convenience.
Don’t Count on Me to “Reach Out”
The bottom line is that you cannot wait or count on someone that’s depressed to ask you for anything. There is too much embarrassment and fear of burdening you. So if you want to help, you’re going to have to make an effort.
Love Languages, Friendships, & Boundaries
I spend a lot of time thinking about what makes a friend, a close friend, or a best friend. While I think this thought process mostly stems from my naturally curious and fascinated mind when it comes to all things Psychology, I would be ignoring a large chunk of evidence if I did not acknowledge that some of it probably comes from my own childhood self-esteem issues. Continue reading
When You’re “A Lot”
If asked to describe me, my friends would probably tell you that I am the funny one or the loud one. They might even tell you I always have something to say or am the most sarcastic person they know. While these things are true and I am not in the least bit offended by them, I know that they come with a price, with stipulations, and with fine print.
Real Friends Have Contact Photos (And Other Important Things)
The time we choose to give to others is valuable. It is calculated, thought out, and delivered. It is energy, effort, and pieces of ourselves we are giving away. We give pieces, and we get them back in return. Continue reading
Maybe Chbosky Was Right About Love
I find myself being a back-up friend. A last resort. A doormat. Continue reading
Hi there! I’m Mollie. I’m an aunt, educator, and dog-lover. I’m also a pretty big mental-health advocate, which you can probably tell if you click around a bit. There’s more about me, but those are the basics you need to know.
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